that it is nice to let someone who admits an error

feel better after doing so... not feel worse.

If someone comes to you with an apology, or even just a

small, "Oops...", think about what you might say to help them

feel okay about their lapse, rather than telling them all the

reasons why it really inconvenienced you, or made

you look bad, or disserved you.

You will yearn for the same grace some day...

Love, Your Friend....

Neale